I guess you did not get the message THIS IS MY YEAR! Get over it…..

Yup that was for someone most likely not you. My day I thought was going to be a complete write off. Everything from waking up to going to bed. Well I can say with 100% certainty I was wrong. Yes, I spent hours at court where I had hoped the Ex would have come to some sort of reason that her actions might not have been the best ones to choose. But no she did not, ok so no big deal.

I want this to be clear to you my loving readers that if someone files something no matter what it is in court. If it is false FIGHT IT!, make a stand and uphold what is right no matter what. You have your dignity, you need to be able to look in the mirror and say YEAH!. Get an Attorney, cause fighting without one can be a bad idea and if you are protecting yourself costs can be awarded to you if you are in the right.

Look I am not one saying be like a lot of Americans and sue everyone. What I am saying is defend yourself from the “crazies” out there is the world. Don’t lie down and get kicked.

Trans people be proud don’t stand around and complain that nothing ever changes make it change. I am saying that had it not been for so many women in the past screaming for the right to vote…….Well you know the story. Same goes for Martin Luther King, he stood. Don’t be foolish and confront the person who just read you with hostility. Be smart and defuse it with humor. Think before you act. I wish the other person would have taken off her blinkers and chose a different path. But……April 19, 2016 i’ll be there.

Gosh I don’t want to see what will happen if she does not get what she wants in the divorce or the custody agreement. I am kinda worried that I might have to take out a restraining order. I hope not, but if I have to I will.

On a better note…. I saw something so beautiful from a friend of mine and I am not going to tell you what it is but I want you to trust the beauty in it.

*I asked permission before sharing, please if you share videos do ask people if it is ok. Manners and kindness are key in life.

Remember our time here is short, make the most of it by lifting up others not dragging them down. Be Kind……